Shaping the relationship
Does this sound familiar: hardened fronts, dead ends and recurring patterns until absolute exhaustion of both partners? If you do, it may be time to involve a disinterested third party to question assumed roles, playfully allocate them in new ways, clarify the partners values and underline and reactivate the most important resources of you as a couple.
The aim could be to find ways out of the labyrinth of accusation, self-sacrifice, offences given and taken, fears of loss, claustrophobia, guilt and pressure toward a higher quality of life. The aim could be a relationship in which you can freely express your love as well as yourselves
Ending a relationship
Sometimes it is wise to let go and say goodbye. I give professional assistance with this step and with whatever may follow in its wake.